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Tips on maintaining a stress-free relationship?


DCThurin

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First of all, be honest. Di yung yung kasal ka pla tas pakilala mo binata ka hahaha. Second, don't make your partner feel like an option. Wag laging barkada muna bago partner. Third,  own up to your mistakes. Yung pag umamin ka na asawa mo, aminin mo lahat di yung sasabihin yung babae lang may gusto ng lahat and napilitan ka lang para maisalba mo pa sarile mo. 🤣😂

 

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TRUST

COMMUNICATIONS

OPEN SA LAHAT WALANG TINATAGO NA SECRET

BIGYAN MINSAN SPACE OR TIME BAWAT ISA PARA SA SARILI PARA HINDI MAGKASAWAAN AGAD LOLS

WAG MAGING PARANOID/SELOSA/SELOSO

DAPAT CHILL LNG PARANG TROPA /BESTFRIEND 

RESPETO SA BAWAT OPINION OR DECISION

 

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1 hour ago, SAPPH1RA said:

TRUST

COMMUNICATIONS

OPEN SA LAHAT WALANG TINATAGO NA SECRET

BIGYAN MINSAN SPACE OR TIME BAWAT ISA PARA SA SARILI PARA HINDI MAGKASAWAAN AGAD LOLS

WAG MAGING PARANOID/SELOSA/SELOSO

DAPAT CHILL LNG PARANG TROPA /BESTFRIEND 

RESPETO SA BAWAT OPINION OR DECISION

 

kalma lang po mam

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hmmm I am not an expert but I would say, dipende yan sa relationship na compatible para sayo. see the image below.

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yan na un, joke ✌️😅

baka kasi hindi talaga natin kaya yung 'One to One' Relationship.. para bang sa kanya lang lagi naka focus ung ginagawa natin sa araw araw at baka na su-suffocate na kayo.. maybe it's about time to build a relationship sa iba, look for some other healthy activities.

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1. Talk to your partner

2. Support each other

3. Make time for positive moments

4 .Help your partner take care of themself

5. If your current situation isn't working work together to find creative solutions 🥰😘

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Ilang araw lang ako hindi nakabalik sa EOD ang dami nang reactions! Thanks sa mga advice. 

Little backstory lang, mejo nakakaumay lang pag ilalagay ko lahat ng details...

Met my gf on tinder, hooked up naging kami with only a month's familiarity sa isa't isa. Turns out, hindi pala lahat ng aspects compatible samin. fast forward to a year and a half,
naging difficult mag-open up kasi ayaw mong sirain yung situation niyong ganon (and she's not the "pagusapan natin to" kind of girl).

Siguro naghahanap na lang ako ng reason to break-up, or to make a move and jinujustify ko lang sa pagpopost sa EOD. 

Well, I'm not really sure. Pero atleast the people here na makakakita, may mga advice din mapupulot sa mga kapwa men and women nating "explored" sa relationships. hahaha

Peace! 

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pero baka kasi yung Guy lang ang may gusto mag stay sa relationship while yung partner naman ay walang ginagawang effort? or baka maganda itanong WHY kailangan mag stay ung relationship nyo?

you may try to watch these videos sa youtube

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tapos panoorin mo tong movie na to hehe

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then maybe....... watch more movies? hehe, anong movies pa ba maganda mare-recommend nyo guys 😄 

 

 

 

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12 hours ago, DCThurin said:

Ilang araw lang ako hindi nakabalik sa EOD ang dami nang reactions! Thanks sa mga advice. 

Little backstory lang, mejo nakakaumay lang pag ilalagay ko lahat ng details...

Met my gf on tinder, hooked up naging kami with only a month's familiarity sa isa't isa. Turns out, hindi pala lahat ng aspects compatible samin. fast forward to a year and a half,
naging difficult mag-open up kasi ayaw mong sirain yung situation niyong ganon (and she's not the "pagusapan natin to" kind of girl).

Siguro naghahanap na lang ako ng reason to break-up, or to make a move and jinujustify ko lang sa pagpopost sa EOD. 

Well, I'm not really sure. Pero atleast the people here na makakakita, may mga advice din mapupulot sa mga kapwa men and women nating "explored" sa relationships. hahaha

Peace! 

Kailangan talaga pagusapan ninyong dalawa yung mga nakikita nyong difficulties.  If you keep on ignoring, it will come to a point that it will be a source of irritation and magaaway kayo.  Kung ito hindi acceptable sa iyo, dapat nga mag break up na lang kaysa patagalin.

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Wag niyong paabutin na matulog kayo ng mag kaaway... may deadline yan eh.. hehehe
The time na mapalampas niyo yung pag babati at kinabukasan na.. masasanay na kayo.. lagi na lang kayo may away at tampuhan...

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Manage Expectations- Pagusapan lagi ang mga gusto at hindi gusto. 

Pag hindi nyo pa pinagusapan at hindi rin na klaro ang isang bagay, wag po agad magalit or mag assume. Marami po away na nag uumpisa sa "Dapat Kasi" at "Alam nya na dapat" 

 

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